My fiancee is not working….

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
Member
6798 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I dunno; he’s fully paying for the wedding and has had no income for 6 months. It sounds like he has a sizeable savings and wants to enjoy some time off. As long as he can afford it, I don’t see what the issue is. It doesn’t sound like he’s free loading, in fact, paying for the wedding in full is adding incredible value to your relationship. 

Post # 18
Member
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I am happy your last update is a positive one. nevertheless, I just want to add that he has worked in his family business for 10 years. It is very possible that he never really had to apply for a job. Also, going from self employed to being employed can be difficult. So he either is not motivated or doesn’t know how to find a job. Either way, his savings accont better be reeeeally full because not only is he paying for the wedding and living off of his savings for 10+ months, he should also have a good amount put away for the business you guys want to start together.

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