- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
Maybe I’m being a little ridiculous but I need to get this off my chest and possibly get some advice.
My fiance’s best friend is a really pretty girl and I’m having a difficult time with it. They were friends before we met, so this isn’t a new girl. However, neither of them have been single at the same time so it’s not like they ever had the opportunity to date. Otherwise, I think they would have.
She knows every little detail about him. They confide in one another and have a really close bond. They give each other advice, share a ton of inside jokes and seem to share a language that only they can understand. I hate it. I want to be that girl in his life.
She’s very protective of their friendship and has made it very clear to everyone that they’re going to be in each other’s lives forever. This makes it difficult for me to hate her because she’s very nice to me and she seems to respect our relationship. However, she’s not *our* friend, she’s *his* friend and I know she would throw me under the bus if I ever hurt him in any way.
How am I supposed to handle this? My fiance dumped his last girlfriend for being controlling so I’m afraid that I’ll come across as a controlling bitch if I tell him I don’t like how close of friends they are.