(Closed) My fiance's family doesn't seem to warm up to me….

posted 6 months ago in Relationships
Post # 106
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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jellybellynelly :  no, he’s not telling her much of anything – but he said he was staying with family, then when she offered to help him move stuff there, he got all shady and said he wasn’t staying there after all – or something along those lines.  That’s why I said he’s *probably* a shady cheating asshole.

Post # 107
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Newbee

How are you doing OP?

Post # 108
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Helper bee

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nyrame :  She posted another thread of all the details and what ended up happening!

Post # 109
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Newbee

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futuremrsmcl :  Thanks, I know but that thread was closed down, so I posted here to ask how she was doing.

Post # 110
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

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darksideofthemoon :  I would be more concerned about the fact that your fiance is still contacting his ex online than the fact his family keeps in touch with her. Also the fact that it seems like your fiance is trying to protect his family by not giving you the reason why they are acting this way towards you. Seems like there are bigger fish to fry.

Post # 111
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

 

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jellybellynelly :  I dunno though just because he was engaged to someone else longer doesn’t mean OP doesn’t deserve to be treated with respect and kindness by her fiance’s family. She shouldn’t have to be “punished” for his last relationship not working out that’s not her fault.

Post # 112
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Honey bee

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soexcited123 :  OP is no longer with the fiance. Bumping this thread probably isn’t helping her so let it die people.

Post # 113
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

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TwilightRarity :  Arent you obligated to love family though? Yes in laws are family. Just like you can’t choose your siblings or parents you can’t choose your in laws

Post # 114
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

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chocolateplease :  Yeah I agree. If she broke it off with him why would his own family wanna have a relationship with her? That’s super shitty.

Post # 115
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Busy Beekeeper

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soexcited123 :  Are you seriously replying to my comment from 3 months ago???? This has already resolved with a whole new thread full of updates. Maybe go comment on that. 

Post # 116
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Bumble bee

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soexcited123 :  nobody is obligated to love anyone, not even family.

Post # 117
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Closing as it is no longer pertinent. 

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