- 5 months ago
Wowwww your msg really hit close to home. I feel that i am in a similar situation, in my fiances defense he doesnt sit there any say mean things to me but everything else sounds veryyyyyy samiliar.
I think you have some valid points in saying “He showed them how to treat me. He didn’t treat me with respect, so they didn’t either. He showed them I wasn’t that important because he dumped me all the time, so they figured I wouldn’t be around forever.” i feel like that is exactly my situation. You are also quite right in saying that he respect me enough to see that im worthy of respect from others. Also the comment about him being “weak”is something ive been feeling the past month or so, i feel like he wasnt to sit on the fence people pleasing everyone involved.
Overall i actually think everything you said really hit the nail on the head