I just wanted to give you all an updat and get everyone’s opinon once again, even though im sure what everyone will say.
Long stroy short, my fiance went to his sister in laws and brothers house spoke to his siter in law and advised her that i know about her trying to set him up with her friend, he told me the convo is over, i saw her a few days later, she ignored me once again, made no attepmt to show any remorse.
In between all this, i gave my fiance his ring back and told him things need to change and i cant move forward with this like this, he told me that is not what he wants and said he will change, will have my back, made promises etc. He attempted to give me the ring back a number of times until i finally accepted it at which time i told him, this is the FINAL chance.
Since then, everything was okay (for about 3 weeks) then on Friday his sister in law sent me a msg asking to meet up and clear the air, i told her i was happy to meet after work. We met up, as you can imagine i walked into this meeting already very angry as i feel that it is months overdue. She started talking and said “i just want to clear the air and find our what you issue is exactly” this made my blood boil. SHE created the issue and she has the nerve to sit here and immediately start the convo off attacking me, in my opinion it should of started along the line of, i wanted to meet today to apologise for my actions etc but instead I was getting blamed, i dont deny my response was not pleasent, replied by saying “my issue last time i checked you are the one with the issue, you seem to have a lot to say about me”she right away responded “i will not be spoken to like that” anyway safe to say my fiance didnt have my back, i said to her she had no reason to believe he and i were broken up which is her excuse for asking to set him up with her friend, instead of backing me up he said to me “well you are the one who always says i break up with you every week”FIRSTLY i have only ever said that to him and i have no idea why he felt the need to say that. Anyway this meeting last only another 5 more mins as when i called his sister in law fake she got up and left (EYE ROLL)
Once she left my fiance advised me of something which i think is beyond disrespectful, apparently when he went to his sister in laws and brothers house to advised them that i knew about her comments HE told her to not apologise to me, to say i was shattered would be an understatement. To me its a major slap in the face that after knowing how angry i am over this that he would tell her to not apologise.
After his sister in law got home she obviously had a cry to her husband (my fiance’s brother) and her husband called my fiance, i couldnt hear the conversation however my fiance just kept saying “yep, yep, yep, yep” and then proceeded to tell me “you dont know what you have just done”
Over the weekend, i of course was ignored by him, whats new. I sent him a msg full of screenshots where he had promised to have my back etc and all he replied with was “?” seeing as he obviously didnt care i told him that i have spoken to my family and told them i am cancelling the wedding. He responded by saying we will finalise everything this week.
An hour later i was shown a screenshot from my friends instagram, my fiance had gone and liked some random girls photo (something i have argued about with him in the past) i sent him a screenshot of this and said “goes to show what kind of dog you are” he responded by saying “it was a test and i aced it”i DO NOT know who he thinks he is to try and test me on something like this.
After discussing this situation with my friends, everyone agrees that he manipulates the situation too much, e doesnt have my back and i shouldnt continue with this bullshit. I think he thinks that im just calling his bluff by saying ive spoken to my family and that its over, but i dont think he realises im being serious