(Closed) My Fiance's family(help)

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll:
    Yes your wrong to be upset and direct her to someone else for info. on dress : (3 votes)
    14 %
    No your not to be upset or direct her to someone else for info on dress : (11 votes)
    52 %
    you should of just took some time to find the info for her : (7 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
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    7271 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @kenya.latham.1:  Nope you are not wrong for being upset or pointing her to your Maid/Matron of Honor (since your Maid/Matron of Honor is okay with this). TBH at this point I would tell tell them there is not enough time to get a dress anymore and ask them to step down.

    Post # 5
    Member
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2008

    @kenya.latham.1:  YOU’RE in charge of the dresses. It’s YOUR wedding. Regardless of who you delegated the job to, this is your event and she wouldn’t be ordering a dress but for you and your wedding. If you have the information, give it to her because guess what? It’s your wedding and YOU are the one ultimately stressing out about who has ordered their dress and who hasn’t (unless she’s here posting about you not giving her the information and she’s upset). She’s wasting time and now you are too because now you want her to go chase the Maid/Matron of Honor. What’s the point of that, exactly?

     

    Enough of this tit for tat stuff. Y’all are about to be grown, married women. Give her the information and let’s move on. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @kenya.latham.1:  Does FI’s sister and cousin know your MOH?  That could make communicating awkward, and explains why they would want to talk to you.

     

    I’m not sure why your Fiance is appointing your BMs but if it were important to him that they be in the wedding at the time the date came to buy the dresses they hadn’t yet, I would have just paid for them so you didn’t have to worry about it anymore!

    Post # 9
    Member
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2008

    @kenya.latham.1:  So long as you realize eventually that you’re being extremely petty and that’s not the way to operate in life… you’ll be alright.

     

    By The Way… you’re planning your wedding. All your wedding info should be on you or near you in case something comes up in your travels.

    Post # 11
    Member
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2008

    @kenya.latham.1:  I didn’t take anything personal at all. I didn’t have these issues, and I certainly didn’t try to get folks to cosign with me on foolishness. I planned my wedding in 5 months and used my smart phone for its intended purpose, therefore, EVERYTHING was with me. 

     

    I’m a little type A and anal about stuff like that. Preparation and perspective.

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