(Closed) my FIL walked in on us.. please help

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I have no words.  Just lots of internet hugs 🙁

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh yea. We lived with his parents for about a year in the beginning of our relationship and his mom walked in on us a few times. It was uncomfortable but we all got over it. We joke about it now. Totally doesn’t even matter anymore. 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Although it would be terribly embarassing, my bet is that Father-In-Law knows that you are having sex and has probably even had it himself(after all, where did Fiance come from?)

Just keep your head up and life will go on.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I am so sorry! That must be mortifying! The most anyone has ever walked in on me was a vigorous make out session Wink  When you work up the courage I would just apologize and say that it won’t happen again.  On the other hand, if you guys were in his room and your Father-In-Law just walked in, that is an issue of boundaries that your fiance needs to talk to his parents about.  

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My ex’s mom walked in on us once.  She said “Oh you guys are so cute!” then walked out!  So yea…I feel your pain!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

He is probably just as embarassed as you. I would ignore it and act like nothing happened. If he wants to talk about it he will bring it up but chances are he wants to forget it as quickly as possible just like you.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree with MissTatas…you’ll both probably look at the floor instead of each other for a bit, but it’ll pass and be forgotten. *hugs* to you though, I know that’s one aaaaawkward feeling for a bit. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

oh my.  Time heals all.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Wow…that’s kind of happend to us once. We were living with his mom and step-dad and he had finally convinced me to give him a bj (the idea has always sickened me and I hate them but I was being nice) and his step-dad walked in! I freaked out!!! They kicked us out of their house and no one has mentioned it since…except when we had to go to his dads house and ask to live there for awhile. It was an awkward conversation but his dad’s at the time gf laughed when my Fiance told the story and he said, “we were just having a bit of fun.” His step dad almost walked in on the actual deed many times before that too…

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

@love4sean: Yeah that would have been bad. lol. I thought the same thing when he walked in and saw…what he saw. I’m just glad we both had all our clothes on! lol. I’m just glad they never mentioned it after talking to my Fiance that night. lol. They didn’t even talk to me about it. His step-dad told his mom who called him into their room and talked to him and next thing I know I hear him yelling at me to starp packing our stuff because we are leaving! Apparently they told him I had to be out by that friday (I think it was a Tuesday) so we left and he called his dad to ask to stay with him. His dad heard the story and said that as long as I didn’t get pregnant and we didn’t do anything anywhere but our room we could stay. lol. His mom didn’t even let us share a room! One of us slept in the living room while the other had his old room.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Want to talk about really being mortified? How about your ex’s mom walking in on you when you two were losing your viriginites to eachother at age 16?

That most definitely happened to me.

 

Yeah. Roll that up and smoke it.

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