(Closed) My FIRST MOH vent **need advise please**

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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8453 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know you’re feeling hurt, but realize she’s feeling hurt too.  At least you have a wonderful man, a wedding, and a future relationship to look forward to…she doesn’t.  I know it sucks right now, and it seems like she’s not as good of a friend as you would llike her to be, and to be honest she is being a bit selfish.  Sometimes it’s hard for people to think clearly when their emotions are being toyed with.  I think part of the reason this annoys you is because you know she deserves way better than this guy.  When you talk to her, you should focus on your concern for her getting hurt again, and not her lack-of-involvement/disregard/negligence.  I think once she realizes how good of a friend you really are, she’ll want to be a good friend back.  Good luck and stay positive!

Post # 4
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479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is crazy I had the same problem out of my cousin for my wedding. But once it was over she came to talk to me and told me she started pulling away because she began wanting to get married, and she just wanted to start getting her life together so she could be next. Now well that being said, maybe she is pushing so hard to be with men because she see’s everyone else getting married, having kids,Etc.. Wedding are stressful already so don’t even make your crazy over this. Once the wedding is over try to sit down and talk to her so you.can get it off your mind and heart. But right now just enjoy your wedding and over look the dumb stuff. (For Now)

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