- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I know the proposal is coming soon…I think…. Well I know it’s coming. The SO and I have been talking lately about wedding plans. His idea is a small wedding in Vegas with no reception until we can afford it, Which by his timeline is two years after we get married. He wants to get married right away. He says he can’t stand long engagements. So that’s why he doesn’t want to wait two more years so we can have a big wedding
I’m ok with the small wedding in Vegas. It’ll be hard for me to weed out my friends, but I can do it. I told him that I want to parade around in my dress on the strip. (Tea length dress) After the ceremony he just wants to go partying on the strip. I don’t mind that either, but what I do want to do mind is the fact that I don’t see my gramma going from club to club with us. I’m sure she would like to see our first dance, but I don’t know I’ve never asked.
And it’s not like my my entire family can come out to Callifornia again for the reception they live in Michigan while his family lives in Cali, Vegas and Arizona.
I’m just so Frustrated because I can’t really talk about it to much because we’re not engaged! I can’t wait for him to pop the question so i can’t tell him how I feel about his plan and he has to listen without shutting down and leaving me a little ball of frustration and spite.
phew! Thank you for listening to my rant sorry it was all over the place.
I feel better now though.