(Closed) My FMIL ruined my first wedding

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I completely understand the emotions involved when there is a crazy Future Mother-In-Law, I have one too! Aren’t we lucky ; )

I suggest that you start planning it and wait to see how she reacts. If she even hints at the fact that she is unhappy, you and your Fiance need to sit her down and calmly explain to her that, while you would enjoy her support and happiness, you don’t need it. If she wants to be a part of the celebration she needs to realize that not everything is about her. If you and your Fiance are happy, that’s all that matters.

Just remember to plan the wedding that YOU want…and have fun with it! Don’t let sour people like your Future Mother-In-Law ruin this special time for you.

Post # 4
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2321 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Psh! Just give her something time-consuming to do that is wedding related. Is she good at arts/crafts type things? Ask her to make some bows or something for the chairs. Or send her on a treasure hunt for that ‘perfect centrepiece’ that does not exist.

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