- 6 years ago
My Future Mother-In-Law and I have had no relationship and she pretty much hates me and thinks shes better than me and my family (her words)..actually if I want to be completely accurate, she said I am better than ‘those people’ I have written many posts on the subject. Here is a link to the Latest if you want to play a little catch up. I want to ask you bees what you would say to me if I were my Future Mother-In-Law..What would you bees say to her if she were a part of our community. The post will be (what I consider to be) from her point of view…Obviously I feel much differently on some issues and some things she says is false, but given this situation..in her words only..what would you reply? so from here on I am her:
Hi bees, what would you do if your son was marrying someone who was totally wrong for him? I know he is being used by this woman and he refuses to listen. I know that she will lead to his demise and hinder who he could truly grow to be as an individual. This girl is not only going to ruin my son’s life but she has ruined my life and my family. She has been so disrespectful towards me and my son just takes her side. She has called me a coward directly to me and I am sure many things behind my back. I really want my son to break up with her, I have a feeling that she is just using my caring and generous son to take care of her and her child. My son has lied many times to us about her, saying that they had broken up when it wasn’t true. He had her turn up at his graduation when he said that she wouldn’t be there…She has literally come into my life and wrecked shop, turned my happy home upside down. My son never told me that he was getting engaged. We found out about the wedding because they sent us a STD in the mail. I am so hurt that my own son had to “invite” his mother to his wedding. So many hurtful things have been said by him for her and from her that I really don’t want to even go to the wedding. I proposed that if they would postpone for a little while, so my son could experience the world a little, finish his masters degree and just live life a little that I would try to get to know his future wife better and we could all be on the same page and they would go into a marriage hopefully with our support. At first they said no, then they said that they would postpone for a year and a half, then they finally said 3 years but at this point I don’t want them to do me any favors. The more I think about that deal I proposed the more it makes me sick to my stomach to think that I have to be in her company. We will never be OK. I just know it. Please offer some advice because at this present moment, I am lost.
Sinc. Mrs Neutrino’s Future Mother-In-Law