- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
That sucks, big time. I can’t believe the audacity people have. Ughhhh. I’d have to say though, if she’s brash enough to invite herself to the wedding, she’s probably the type of person to “remember” if you don’t invite her. You know? I’d say you’ll have to bite the bullet and let her come. You could say that you only invited current co-workers and you don’t want to hurt the feelings of any other old co-workers who didn’t get invited. That’s tricky, too, though since it makes it seem like her feelings are less important.
If you decide not too, though – don’t lie. Do not make up any detail that isn’t true. Then you have to be careful about what you tell your co-workers, etc. so she doesn’t find out and get even more upset. If you slip and let that detail out, she will know and a whole new mess will begin.