(Closed) My friend copies everything I do… now THIS was the last straw…

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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Helper bee

You could try saying something along these lines: “She’s so pathetic. Let me tell you something about Janis Ian. We were best friends in middle school. I know, right? It’s so embarrassing. I don’t even… Whatever. So then in eighth grade, I started going out with my first boyfriend Kyle who was totally gorgeous but then he moved to Indiana, and Janis was like, weirdly jealous of him. Like, if I would blow her off to hang out with Kyle, she’d be like, “Why didn’t you call me back?” And I’d be like, “Why are you so obsessed with me?” “

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

That is pretty weird. It doesn’t sound sinister though, maybe your friend just lacks confidence in her style and looks up to you. If it bothers you I would have a chat with her, because she might not understand that you don’t like it. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

sosojamie:  haha, mean girls?

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Ugh, had the same situation happen to me. It was getting out of hand. She started dressing like me, dying her hair, buying the same stuff as me, liking the same styles of things as me, then she started wanting to copy my furniture…. It was crazy.

Anyway, long story short, we aren’t friends anymore lol. But this was due to other reasons, like, her being super immature and acting like a 14 year old when she is 24.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

Oh, I forgot to mention, she also copied one of my tattoos. haha 

Post # 8
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Helper bee

soymilk:  Haha yeah.  I wasn’t meaning to be catty OP it just seriously leapt in to my mind haha.  

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

I would honestly be really uncomfortable with someone dying their hair my particular shade, and wearing the same clothes as me. I mean, there’s flattery, then there’s a little too creepy for me. Sorry bee, no advice, just.. Good luck. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Stop telling her where you shop/get your hair done?

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Maybe she into you? 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

I wouldn’t care…She is copying you, not trying to one up you…you should be flattered! 

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper

Its not flattering at all, its single white female creepy…

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

That’s some Single White Female shit right there. 

 

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