(Closed) My friend copies everything I do… now THIS was the last straw…

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That’s really bizarre…. 

Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

That’s creepy.  You probably shouldn’t be friends with her any more.  

Post # 18
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Blushing bee

So weird. I have no advice, except be careful, because this sounds like the beginning of a bad lifetime movie.

Post # 20
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

To be honest, it’s odd and a little disturbing, all the way down to the ring. I honestly would ask her why she is doing it. It’s definitely strange behavior and I would want to know why she feels the need to do stuff like that. She needs to be her own person. One of two of the same things, I understand. But something as personal and lifelong as a wedding ring and a tattoo? That’s bizarre. 

Post # 21
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Ummm… this is weird…  littke things… sure maybe she looks up to you and your sense of style… but this? No this is just creepy.

Post # 22
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Busy bee

I could see that a bit of imitation is flattery. However, she seems like she’s really stepping over some lines. I would have a serious discussion with her and ask her why she is behaving like this. I also probably wouldn’t be friends with her anymore either. 

Post # 23
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 1995

I’d just stop telling her where i get my things. Not gonna lie don’t understand where pp are getting its only a “white single thin” I know if I said it was just a “black thing” so many people would be freaking. Just my opinion though 😉

Post # 24
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Busy bee

I would acknowledge her copy cat behavior and say that you find it odd. Moving forward, stop telling her where you shop.

may16bride:  it’s a movie. “Single White Female.” No need to be offended. 

Post # 25
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

may16bride:  Because they are referring to a movie titled SINGLE WHITE FEMALE where this copying is basically the plot line?

I mean I am guessing posters here have guessed she is not single because of her rings, and we have no idea if she is white, black, or orange, but the behaviour is reminiscent of the movie. No reason to get offended.

Post # 27
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Bumble bee

Yes. There was movie with Jennifer Jason Lee in it called Single White Female. If you have time, watch it and then have a think. This is a lot creepy.

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Post # 28
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 1995

ooh whoops guess I’ve never seen it

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

It sounds like she doesn’t have confidence and wants to be like you. Try complimenting some of her choices…ask her where she got something, etc. Or say jokingly that she can’t get the same bliuse but you’ll help her find one for her…

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