My friend got proposed…..AT MY WEDDING!!!!!!!

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
  • poll: Would you be upset or not?
    Yes, it's my day and they have 364 other days to propose : (466 votes)
    90 %
    No, it didn't take away from the wedding and they are my friends : (51 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 2
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    876 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    0queenbee0 :  I would be pissed off. It’s not about them…way to steal your thunder. 

    Post # 3
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    5430 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

    0queenbee0 :  

    Yeah, I would be disgusted. Even more so by the arrogance of “our proposal made your day more special!!”

    I have no words. Ugh, sorry bee.

    Post # 4
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    689 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    All of the nopes. I would be pissed.

    Post # 5
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    6438 posts
    Bee Keeper

    0queenbee0 :  I’d be angry especially if this was unplanned.  Also I know it’s just a day, but this is your wedding!

    Post # 6
    Member
    1008 posts
    Bumble bee

    I can’t believe people actually do this. I am so sorry this happened. I don’t think it’s worth ending a friendship over and i dont think I’d even tell her how I felt  (what’s the point) but yes, if be really pissed. 

    Post # 7
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    1285 posts
    Bumble bee

    That’s rude AF. On his part, not really hers I guess (assuming she didn’t know it was coming).

    Post # 8
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    517 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    I would be super annoyed… Who does this?!

    Post # 9
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    1285 posts
    Bumble bee

    Perhaps if you plan to have kids and can work out the timing, you can announce your pregnancy at HER wedding 😛

    Post # 10
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    3459 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

    Usually I’m easy going and not much bothers me but this would have pissed me off. He could have proposed any other day and had 364 to choose from. Then had the nerve to say your wedding day was more special bc of his completely inappropriate proposal. Ugh.

    Post # 11
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    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    0queenbee0 :  Oh no so sorry this hapened to you! I would be so upset and probably not talk to them again.  Then again that is just me.  

    Post # 12
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    545 posts
    Busy bee

    Umm no. It would be completely different if it would have been ran by you first, but since it wasn’t, absolutely not. 

    Post # 13
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    5070 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2017

    Totally inappropiate.

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2016

    I would no longer be friends with them. It was incredibly selfish of them to get engaged at your wedding. I have no interest in being friends with people who clearly have no consideration for anyone but themselves.

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