My friend got proposed…..AT MY WEDDING!!!!!!!

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
  • poll: Would you be upset or not?
    Yes, it's my day and they have 364 other days to propose : (466 votes)
    90 %
    No, it didn't take away from the wedding and they are my friends : (51 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 151
    201 posts
    Helper bee

    yessssssssss share the handle so we can comment!!

    Post # 152
    562 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2017 - Lake Louise Canada

    “Hey wouldn’t it be soooooo romantic if we had a big fancy party with all of our friends, a grand stage to propose on and the most expensive meal of a lifetime for everyone we know? That sure would make an amazing proposal. Boy would that cost me a damn fortune. Wait a minute, Jane and Bob are already paying for just such a party! Perfect opportunity to make the most important and expensive day of their lives all about me! I won’t even give them a hint, they’ll be so glad I blessed them with my presence”

    This is not a friend. This is a sociopath. Maybe I’m petty but this man would never get the time of day from me again.

    Post # 153
    1979 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    sarbear7777777 :  i wouldnt consider her a troll post, ive heard quite a few horror stories of people proposing at other peoples weddings, her story really isnt that far fetched. 

    and i would never show that video to anyone, why post something on the internet that might permanently live on, that is mortifying, on whats suppose to be one of the best days of your life. Nope. id bury that video deep into the back closet. 

    Post # 154
    627 posts
    Busy bee

    0queenbee0 :  wow. I’m usually one to think it’s obnoxious when people don’t want their spotlight stolen, but your friends getting engaged at your wedding reception is RIDICULOUS!!!!! I can’t imagine what would compel anyone to think that’s a good idea. Was the guy drunk??? You’d think at least the girl would have enough sense to know it’s wickedly inappropriate and run off embarrassed, but no! She said yes and tries to tell you that her proposal makes your day more special??? Wth!!! I guarantee you she put him up to it. Proceed with this friendship with caution. 

    Post # 156
    758 posts
    Busy bee

    I don’t think its a troll post. She didn’t use their real names,  so why would she post a video of them? 

    Post # 158
    411 posts
    Helper bee

    I think this thread is just feeding into your resentment and anger. Yes I think what they did is tacky, but it’s not the end of the world. You can’t change what happened, and in the end, it was just a couple minutes out of your wedding. I’d try to let go of this, I feel like it’s ruining your memories of your wedding and it really shouldn’t. 

    Post # 160
    55 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    Extremely tacky. This is only okay if it had been run by you first- which it wasn’t. 

    At the end of the day it only makes them look bad. Hope you still had a wonderful wedding day, Bee. 

    Post # 161
    3686 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Maggie and her fiance are a couple of selfish assholes.  Your wedding was supposed to be about you and your husband.  The two of you planned a beautiful party and did the work to get all of those guests together–to celebrate your marriage.  

    Maybe you’ll get a chance to attend their wedding and use it as a venue to announce a pregnancy.  

    Post # 162
    142 posts
    Blushing bee

    What children. Ontop of what they pulled, (using your wedding day as their engagement party) She can’t even flat out tell you she doesnt want you part of her bachelorette party and chooses to ignore you. This behavior reminds me so much of my ex-friends…total nightmare. Cut ties with them, but you should speak up, write a long message (you should include this post to help offer her some perspective) or mail her a letter. Do something, because losing a friendship is extremely difficult/heartbreaking, and you deserve some sort of closure. 

    Post # 163
    683 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    It’s really too bad your friend’s fiance is a self-centered, socially incompetent turd. I’d be embarrassed for her, since I’m sure she had no say in his really inconsiderate decision, but it sounds like neither of them have realized they’ve done something they should be embarrassed about. I’m pretty sure the German language has a word to describe the sentiment. 

    ETA: just read your update. I’m so sorry. They’re both being really selfish and inconsiderate, and it sounds like they really deserve each other. 

    Post # 164
    534 posts
    Busy bee

    Don’t attend their wedding. Regift whatever present they gave you back to them as their wedding present with a card “thanking” them for their tacky selfish behavior and this terrible friendship.

    Post # 165
    267 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    Started another chat without you? I hope the bitch gets explosive diarrhea on the day of her wedding. 

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