- 2 years ago
yessssssssss share the handle so we can comment!!
yessssssssss share the handle so we can comment!!
“Hey wouldn’t it be soooooo romantic if we had a big fancy party with all of our friends, a grand stage to propose on and the most expensive meal of a lifetime for everyone we know? That sure would make an amazing proposal. Boy would that cost me a damn fortune. Wait a minute, Jane and Bob are already paying for just such a party! Perfect opportunity to make the most important and expensive day of their lives all about me! I won’t even give them a hint, they’ll be so glad I blessed them with my presence”
This is not a friend. This is a sociopath. Maybe I’m petty but this man would never get the time of day from me again.
sarbear7777777 : i wouldnt consider her a troll post, ive heard quite a few horror stories of people proposing at other peoples weddings, her story really isnt that far fetched.
and i would never show that video to anyone, why post something on the internet that might permanently live on, that is mortifying, on whats suppose to be one of the best days of your life. Nope. id bury that video deep into the back closet.
0queenbee0 : wow. I’m usually one to think it’s obnoxious when people don’t want their spotlight stolen, but your friends getting engaged at your wedding reception is RIDICULOUS!!!!! I can’t imagine what would compel anyone to think that’s a good idea. Was the guy drunk??? You’d think at least the girl would have enough sense to know it’s wickedly inappropriate and run off embarrassed, but no! She said yes and tries to tell you that her proposal makes your day more special??? Wth!!! I guarantee you she put him up to it. Proceed with this friendship with caution.
I don’t think its a troll post. She didn’t use their real names, so why would she post a video of them?
i don’t have any new updates ( i am still being ignored) except that today another friend in common that doesn’t know anything about me being upset for this asked me if i was coming to Maggie’s bachelorette party because they had opened another group chat and she didn’t see me in it…so i guess this confirms i am being 100% shut out.
I just wanted to say that i really wish this was a made up story but is not, this is real life and it happened to me. I know sometimes reality can seem more unbelievable than science fiction, but true story unfortunately.
Maybe one day I feel strong enough to share the video but right now I am still very embarrassed. I haven’t even had the guts to watch it myself! So what’s the point? I know what happened and I don’t think watching it is going to do anything but annoy me.
thank you again everyone for your comments and support it really helps.
I think this thread is just feeding into your resentment and anger. Yes I think what they did is tacky, but it’s not the end of the world. You can’t change what happened, and in the end, it was just a couple minutes out of your wedding. I’d try to let go of this, I feel like it’s ruining your memories of your wedding and it really shouldn’t.
Extremely tacky. This is only okay if it had been run by you first- which it wasn’t.
At the end of the day it only makes them look bad. Hope you still had a wonderful wedding day, Bee.
Maggie and her fiance are a couple of selfish assholes. Your wedding was supposed to be about you and your husband. The two of you planned a beautiful party and did the work to get all of those guests together–to celebrate your marriage.
Maybe you’ll get a chance to attend their wedding and use it as a venue to announce a pregnancy.
What children. Ontop of what they pulled, (using your wedding day as their engagement party) She can’t even flat out tell you she doesnt want you part of her bachelorette party and chooses to ignore you. This behavior reminds me so much of my ex-friends…total nightmare. Cut ties with them, but you should speak up, write a long message (you should include this post to help offer her some perspective) or mail her a letter. Do something, because losing a friendship is extremely difficult/heartbreaking, and you deserve some sort of closure.
It’s really too bad your friend’s fiance is a self-centered, socially incompetent turd. I’d be embarrassed for her, since I’m sure she had no say in his really inconsiderate decision, but it sounds like neither of them have realized they’ve done something they should be embarrassed about. I’m pretty sure the German language has a word to describe the sentiment.
ETA: just read your update. I’m so sorry. They’re both being really selfish and inconsiderate, and it sounds like they really deserve each other.
Don’t attend their wedding. Regift whatever present they gave you back to them as their wedding present with a card “thanking” them for their tacky selfish behavior and this terrible friendship.
Started another chat without you? I hope the bitch gets explosive diarrhea on the day of her wedding.