My friend got proposed…..AT MY WEDDING!!!!!!!

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
  • poll: Would you be upset or not?
    Yes, it's my day and they have 364 other days to propose : (466 votes)
    90 %
    No, it didn't take away from the wedding and they are my friends : (51 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 62
    2166 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would be soooo mad. Couldn’t think of a different time or place to do this? Are they know for this type of behavior or was this out of character?

    Post # 63
    665 posts
    Busy bee

    0queenbee0 :  say goodbye to them. I was at a wedding once and the father opened up his speech with an update about the Stanley Cup game. He brought out a mop and said something about one team mopping up the other. I almost died it was so inappropriate. Who cares about some game he’s the father of a bride and your friends are just as awful. 

    How old are they? Is this some low type trash couple that doesn’t know how to act? Do you think they embarrassed themselves? I do.

    man I feel so bad for you. This cannot be the first time they have acted out. It’s just too “out there” rude for this to be an isolated instance.

    Post # 64
    1731 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    0queenbee0 :  I’d be living. Tacky and classless. Those would be in the ex-friends category for sure 

    Post # 65
    60 posts
    Worker bee

    I’m sure I’m in the minority here but I wouldn’t really care. It clearly would have been better if he asked you and received permission to do this at your wedding….but regardless I’d be thrilled for one of my best friends. 

    Post # 66
    971 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    0queenbee0 :  yeah i would be pissed of. Probably wont go to their wedding.

    Post # 67
    388 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: Rydges Hotel

    I would be angry as well. Not by the fact they proposed on the wedding, but by the way it was done.

    It would have been more appropriate if he asked the bride and groom’s permission first OR propose when they were alone and don’t make a big anouncement. 

    The way it was done is tasteless, and the comment he made afterwards is beyond my comprehension. How can someone be so rude and not be aware of it? 

    Post # 68
    125 posts
    Blushing bee

    I would be so embarrassed if I was proposed to at someone else’s wedding. How rude! I think if the bride is in on it and totally ok with the proposal then it can be really cute. But obviously this was a surprise to everyone. The nerve of these people. I would die. 

    Post # 69
    267 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    I wouldn’t talk to her, especially after the arrogant comment about the day being more special. 

    Nope. Bye. Unfriended.

    Post # 70
    723 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015 - Backyard

    Ditto to the ex-friends comments. I would dump them and definitely not go to their wedding. How tacky, rude and classless. That is just so weird. 

    Post # 71
    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2017

    Why did your besty go up on stage when he asked??.  I would have shook my head no. I bet she knew he was proposing.. I would be so pissed and cut then both off for awhile. 

    Post # 72
    1391 posts
    Bumble bee

    I think that is classless. They could have done that on ANY day, but on your wedding day when you and your groom are supposed to be the centre of attention and it’s your big day and moment? And to do it on stage at your wedding?  I would be upset.  They didn’t care about your feelings at all.  How would they like it if someone did that to them on their big day?  Losers.

    Post # 73
    240 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    OhHoney :  what comment???

    Post # 74
    1288 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2018 - Omaha, NE

    I’d be upset. 364 other days of the year and you have to hijack my party (that I paid for) to do your special thing? Like getting proposed to after a nice dinner is one thing but I paid for your nice dinner lol

    It might not be friendship ending for me, especially if the girl didn’t know he was going to do that, but I’d be having a stern chat with the guy for sure. Obviously I can’t go back in time and undo it so I’d get over it, but that was a dick move.

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