My friend got proposed…..AT MY WEDDING!!!!!!!

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
  • poll: Would you be upset or not?
    Yes, it's my day and they have 364 other days to propose : (466 votes)
    90 %
    No, it didn't take away from the wedding and they are my friends : (51 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 91
    Member
    1308 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: City, State

    0queenbee0 :  I say legally serve the bitch your reception bill during her wedding ceremony

    Post # 92
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    1246 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2018

    I think she is trying to save her own behind.  When people ask about her proposal, I think every reasonable person is going to be just a little shocked to learn it happened ON STAGE AT SOMEONE ELSES WEDDING.  Her only save is a follow-up with the explanation that you and your husband loved it and were very supportive!  Otherwise, it is just straight up shady the way it went down, and it will haunt their relationship for the rest of their lives. 

    Post # 93
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    11575 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Just send her the link to this thread. It can’t hurt your friendship, since it’s obviously one-sided. 

    Post # 94
    Member
    527 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    I wouldn’t be friends with them or attend their future wedding.

    Alternatively, I may attend the wedding just to be a spiteful bitch and make some big thunder-stealing announcement there too lol.

    Post # 95
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    154 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    I just read your update and I am so sorry bee. I know how extremely frustrating it can be when a friend does something wrong and then twist and turns it to make you look like the bad guy! The guy got your husband to apologize, I am asuming because he realized that’s what’s needed to save yours and Maggies friendship. He showed that he is the bigger person. Despite this don’t you dare let that guy talk you into thinking that you’ve done something wrong – you were absolutely right to be upset about this and did the right thing to call him out on his manipulative behavior.

    Oh and I would still go to the wedding and make sure to tell EVERYONE why your husband is not there with you and you had to travel by yourself!

    Post # 96
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    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2019

    bridetobe2018  is right. It would be funny to see their faces every single time they try to tell others how the proposal went down. Cos they won’t only feel shocked, but weird too.

    But honestly, your update… Clearly shows she’s so NOT worth your time! If I were you, I would have given her a piece of my mind! And I would so go to the wedding and just like apollo says… TELL ‘EM ALL!

    Post # 97
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    1178 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    I’m sorry you’re feeling sad about this, bee. The way both the Fiance and your friend reacted just goes to show their true character. Her proposal made your wedding more special for HER, but not for you. Do you really want friends like that in your lives? I sure wouldn’t.

    I’d probably respond to the group message about the bachelorette and say “Sorry, ladies. Maggie informed me that my husband is not welcome at her wedding because he was upset at her thunder stealing Fiance, so I will no longer be attending any wedding related festivities for Maggie. Hope you all have a great time!”

    Maggie would then be promptly blocked on all social media, text, e-mail, etc. Cut off. What a bitch.

    Post # 98
    Member
    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2019

    emeraldbee :  Hahaha! I love your come back message!

    Post # 99
    Member
    1178 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    annann91 :  🙂 I would LOVE to see the drama that goes down if she were to actually do it. It’s not rude, just factual. But I’m sure Maggie would not feel that way because most people are not that direct.

    Post # 100
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    8578 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    princess_r :  

    Yes odd isn’t ? I mean the OP is bang up there right underneath the poll. You dont have to go anywhere to vote in it  – and not reading the OP that the poll is attached to, but later commenting on that post seems, well, odd….

    Post # 101
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    8578 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    emeraldbee :  

    Great response , but I wouldn’t  say “upset at her thunder stealing Fiance, “ that’s rather too vague  and might make people  who didn’t know the exact situation think Op and h. are the problem .

    I’d say ..”upset at her fiance not only seizing the microphone  during our speeches and proposing to Maggie on it but also at at our being  unable to  agree with their contention that  this somehow made our wedding more special  “  

    Post # 102
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    2529 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    If he planned it with you fair enough but otherwise absolutely not!

    Post # 103
    Member
    479 posts
    Helper bee

    0queenbee0 :  one word WTF. I would be massively pissed especially if they didn’t ask you in advance – that’s a HUGE NONO. I would straight up tell them off

    Post # 104
    Member
    530 posts
    Busy bee

    0queenbee0 :  I bet your friend is pissed because she saw this thread!

    If not, then I hope she goes on Weddingbee TODAY and sees how utterly classless and manipulative everyone thinks she and her fiancé her.

    Btw, did she wear white to your wedding too?

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