Post # 121
They both seem to have their heads in the sand. I wouldn’t waste anymore energy on these two. Seriously, they’re going to be like this for the rest of your lives. If you buy a home, they’ll buy a bigger or newer one. If you have a baby, they’ll announce they’re pregnant at your baby shower. Their behavior indicates that they have no concept of proper time and place and are two selfish people. Good riddance to them.
Post # 122
Saw the last update about her ignoring you. She’s totally doing it because she doesn’t want you at her wedding to steal her thunder. She seems incredibly selfish in that it’s okay for her to steal your thunder, but not okay for you to steal hers. Her and her selfish fiance seem like a good match though. I’d just stop doing the bachelorette party (can’t believe you even considered doing it in the first place) and walk away from the friendship.
Post # 123
You could try to get pregnant before her wedding, make a pregnancy anouncement at their wedding and tell her how it made her day so much more special 😉
Post # 124
0queenbee0 : they’re tacky. I’d announce a pregnancy at their wedding just to be spiteful (even if it isn’t true lol)
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Post # 126
Oh my god, I hate this woman. At first I was blaming it on him and thinking maybe Maggie just needed a serious talk to save the friendship. Now I’m like “argg! cut her damn face off!” Ugh I know you must value this awful girl on some level OP and that must be really hard..but WTF is wrong with these people??
Post # 127
Stop chasing her, don’t go to the bacherolette or wedding. Focus on your other friendships.
This wouldn’t have bothered me that much, but I know I’m in a minority, and their response upon finding you were happy for them but not happy about the way he proposed, show them to be self-absorbed and immature.
Post # 128
0queenbee0 : I don’t see this as an issue, but obviously everyone else and you do so there ya go.
Post # 129
Well all you can do now is announce a pregnancy at their wedding. Fair is fair.
jk but uh… that is so inappropriate of them. They are clueless.
Post # 130
You are very calm and level headed! Have your other family or friends commented on the situation? How do they feel about it? Maybe their interpretation of the event can help you feel better about how you feel/ about the memory. I am sure people still recognize it as your wedding rather than their engagement. I am really sorry that your friends are so self centered
Post # 131
0queenbee0 : oh wow just read your update. She should have apologized when she found out it didn’t go over well! Stop throwing her a bachelorette and just fade away. It sounds like that’s what she’s doing to to you anyway.
Post # 132
I’d even be mad if I was “Maggie.” I’d wonder why he had to do that at your wedding? He couldn’t spend one ounce of energy thinking up a more creative, special place for a proposal! Just something special between the two of them? He had to horn in on someone else’s special time? I’d really wonder about his feelings for me? This was a no-effort proposal!
Post # 133
Just read your update. Step down as her glorified party planner. Do you really need this headache in your life? You are a newlywed and you should be enjoying this time.
Post # 134
Thank you everyone for your input i really apreciate reading all your comments and opinions, it’s therapeutic know that people share my feelings and understands me.
So my videographer shared a clip with them of the proposal moment and they have shared it at social media…
she said at a group chat that she was going to share it and i just didn’t pronounced myself about it. Meanwhile other friends in common have said how amazing the clip is and how romantic blah blah blah… i think i am from Mars i would have hated a proposal like that.
palebluepetals : thank you, i agree this whole thing has been such a headache. It’s not easy to part ways with friends tho. And i wanted to do something nice for her because she really was very nice to me when i was planning my bachelorette and all that so i felt like i just had to put my feelings aside because this was her boyfriends idea and not hers to propose the way it happened.
I feel like if i just drop and stop planning being part of it they will accuse me not just of being selfish for not thinking their engagement makes my day more special but of being bad friend too.
very tricky situation i never in a million years thought i would be put in this spot
i keep sending emails regarding the hotel situation and i still being ignored, also sent screenshots of the emails to group chat and nothing… at this point i think many of you are right and i am not welcome anymore in this celebrations…
Post # 135
i cant believe your still friends with these people. Personally i would give her and him a piece of my damn mind, and tell them that they ruined your wedding for you and your husband.
the fact that they keep saying it made your wedding that more special is complete bull**** and beyond selfish. And maybe they should be reminded of that.
im sorry but i have zero patience and manners for people like your describing. I wouldnt go to their wedding and i sure as heck wouldnt help plan any of it, regardless of what this couples role was in yours.