(Closed) My friend is cheating on my other friend

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

I have been cheated on in the past and I was told (by anonymous letter which was horrible as I didn’t know how accurate the information was). However it turned out to be entirely correct and if I hadn’t been told I would have had no idea. I will always be grateful that someone told me (despite their methods).

I have zero respect for people who cheat and show no remorse. if I were you I would confirm the information is correct, tell Jill she needs to come clean within 24 hours (not just break it off with Chad – tell the gods honest truth to Jack) and if she choses not to then go to Jack. He is the victim in this and he deserves to have loyalty from his friends especially if his girlfriend is showing him no loyalty whatsoever. 

Post # 33
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357 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

hopfenn:  Hope you can come back and let us know how it went!

Post # 34
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2777 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

If Jack were my close friend I’d totally tell him.

Post # 35
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3050 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I agree with giving the deadline. If she doesn’t then tell him. I think you need to have celeste talk to Jack with you as well if that’s the ultimate end. Ultimately, you need to decide if you want to lose Jill as a friend…personally I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone whom could hurt another friend of mine not once but multiple times.

I’m usually on the boat that I don’t care if someone doesn’t believe me…but if I know something without a doubt is happening then I won’t have that weigh on my mind or potentially put me in a position where I was not upfront as a friend. So I would tell him.

Only in rare cases in which there isn’t proof or reliable information…would I suggest staying out of it.

Good luck.

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