- 9 years ago
Okay, one last thing!! Yesterday she also said something regarding the phone call we had before she went to Europe. Let me tell you that because of the cat’s flea allergy, the cat had been scratching herself a lot and had some scabs and a few spots where she had scratched the fur off completely. So about two weeks ago when we were on the phone with her before she went of out of town (you know the conversation where i told her i was coming this weekend, but apparently she didn’t feel right about it but didn’t realize it till after), well yesterday during our conversation she IMITATED what my husband said to her on the phone which was this: “Has the fur all grown back on my cat?” His question made her judge and question how much my husband cares about his cat and it therefore contributed to her not wanting to give us the cat…..WHY you ask, in case its not obvious? Because after her imitation, she then said: “well, wouldn’t this be something he would have wanted to ask about a long time ago?….(here it is)..if it was my pet, i would want to know!”
She CLEARLY judges my DH and thinks he does not care enough about his cat, which I guess in her mind would lead to him not taking care of the cat. This really bothers me, perhaps more than it should. Because I KNOW my husband. One thing I LOVE about him is how MUCH he cares for his cats!!! Seriously, the past five years I have seen him with animals and seen what he does for his cats and it has only made me love him more!!! He is so good to them, like he goes above and beyond, that it has made me feel good about his ability to be an amazing father when we decide to have children one day! So for her to be sitting there and insinuating that my husband does not care enough about his cats just makes me want to punch her!