(Closed) My friend is the B-Word!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

ya know it seems to me that your phone has been having some trouble lately… yes? I mean you haven’t been getting voicemails for 2, 3 days after they’re left lately if they ever come at all! stupid *insert wireless carrier here*!

🙂

Post # 4
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639 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@corgitales … hahahaha

Post # 6
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hahah Corgi I love it!

Who’s to say you even check the message in time – you had a really busy day and didn’t check it until tomorrow morning oops!

In all honesty though she is expecting WAY too much of you!

Post # 7
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow, I wouldn’t even *ask* my BM’s to do that!! I mean, it’s one thing if it’s her wedding day and she accidentally left her veil at home, but she’s being way too needy. I would just tell her flat out no, or encourage her to as a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

I totally forgot my veil for my hair trial and I couldnt’ care less. Actually I didn’t really forget it, I decided not to bring it because it was too much of a pain to bring on the bus to Philly and carry around all day. And WTH about all these registry updates?? She is going a little nutzo!!

Post # 9
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2641 posts
Sugar bee

She might not realize it being self absorbed in her wedding, but it will be healthier for your friendship if you tell her no on some things.  You might want to think about if it’s better to have a talk pointing out her ridiculous unrealistic expectations, or just start saying, “Gee, I just can’t today.  Wedding season is coming on strong.  And I’m swamped.”  But you need to stand up for yourself.  And you might be doing her a favor too.  Maybe she’s doing this to others (even in a different form of bridezillainess).  Her future self might be thankful to have gotten her bride self knocked straight before permanent damage was done.

Good luck.

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