My friend just became a widow at the age of 24💔

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
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1253 posts
Bumble bee

ksn1219 :  

My heart breaks for you and you’re friend. This will be difficult for you both.

Sending love & well wishes xo

Post # 17
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

bywater :  

I am terribly sorry for your loss, Bee.  How awful for you.

Post # 18
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

ksn1219 :  

My deepest condolences to your friend.  What a terrible loss for her.  So hard to even comprehend.

And I am sorry for you as well, Bee.  This must be very hard for you.

Post # 19
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

ksn1219 :  This is so incredibly sad. I’m sorry bee.

Post # 20
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Buzzing Beekeeper

bywater :  

This is really really important point.

So often we are afraid  to say the ‘wrong’ thing and end up saying and/or doing  nothing and the persom who has suffered the loss  feels if no one will even say the beloved dead person’s name anymore, let alone actually talk about them  And people get  embarrassed when the grieving person tries to talk about their loss.

OP,  go with what she seems to want, and encourage others to do  so too if you can. You yourself  have had much sad experience with grief , and may need to help others to help her , and not let it  seem to her as if he is going  alone into unremembered darkness .

Poor girl ,my heart goes  out to her. .   

Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

ksn1219 :  I am so, so sorry for your darling friend. What an absolutely hearting breaking situation. And I am very sorry for your loss too. Light and love to you all. xx

Post # 22
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Bumble bee

So sorry Hun, my condolences to you and your friend. I can’t imagine xx

Post # 23
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Helper bee

My heart goes out to all of you. I’m so sorry, she must be so devastated. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

This is so utterly devastating bee, I can’t even begin to imagine.

I am glad to hear that she will have at least you and I’m sure other friends and family who will rally and carry her through her grief. 

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