- 11 months ago
I used to say stuff like that , and even made myself believe it, when it was becoming slowly but increasingly clear I would never have them. It’s not rational, but it is what it is.
Tread a fine line between just sharply telling her not to talk about it , and ” if she is struggling with something then I do want to be a good friend and help her through it,”
I did not want to be either shut up or talked through it and she may not either . Maybe just have some phrases like “god yes it’s a fraught question isn’t it! ” etc