My friend keeps bringing up why she doesn't want kids

posted 11 months ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Bumble Beekeeper

shrimpyy :  

I used to say stuff like that , and even made myself believe it,   when it was becoming  slowly but increasingly clear I  would  never have  them. It’s not rational, but it is what it is. 

Tread a fine  line between just  sharply  telling her not to talk about it ,  and  ” if she is struggling with something then I do want to be a good friend and help her through it,”  

I did not want to be either shut  up or talked through it  and she may not either .  Maybe just have  some phrases like “god yes it’s a fraught question isn’t it!  ” etc 

Post # 32
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

elderbee :  oooooo that’s an interesting perspective!

Post # 33
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

The lady doth protest too much.

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