- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2016
I know you will all tell me if Im wrong or being over sensitive. My best friend of 9 years and I haven’t been super close latley. Ever since she got married 2 years ago, I felt our friendship changed. We don’t hang out anymore or really talk like we use to. She was in my wedding this past Nov and I was her Maid/Matron of Honor 2 years ago. She got pregnant a year ago and we all found out on social media. I was a little butt hurt that I found out that way. I eventually got over it but that’s when I really started to realize we weren’t that close anymore. She started hanging out with other friends that were married with kids and I felt kind of pushed aside. She told me she isn’t into the life style of going to bars and stuff. Anyway last week she called me and asked when I was TTC, I told her hopefully the end of the year but we will see. She told me that they were also planning around the same time. her words ,”Hopefully our babies can have play dates”. I just chuckled and left it alone. Well, I’m scrolling through social media last night and I see another annoucement that she’s pregnant. I’m beyond happy for her but it does hurt me that that’s how I find out things. Plus, seeing her new “play date” friends commenting saying “it was such a hard secret to keep” does get me all in my feelings. I’m not mad just hurt. Am I overreacting? She wants to know all my life details sometimes but is so hush hush about her own.