(Closed) My friend’s think Im crazy

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Hugs!

Don’t worry Special K…my Fiance and I were together 7 years before we got engaged too…its not just you! I was talking to him about marriage for like the last 3 years and he always got ticked off saying he’ll do it when he’s ready, and it shouldn’t be about other people’s pressure.

I let it be and he got me a ring! It will happen soon!

Welcome to Weddingbee, by the way!

Post # 4
Member
494 posts
Helper bee

You’ve come to the right place!  Planning isn’t unhealthy so long as it makes you happy, and doesn’t drive you crazy.  I starting brainstorming ideas until I realized that I was too focused on getting married–it made me so mad at my BF.  That doesn’t mean I don’t drool over wedding blogs and inspiration boards on occasion, but I’ve limited myself to WB.  Good luck!!

Post # 6
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

this is the best place to vent!! I came here during my waiting periods many times…everyone is supportive and will let you know you are not crazy even if you know you are.  I had to calm myself down and put my thoughts out here so I wouldn’t drive the guy crazy with engagement/ring talk.

Post # 7
Member
2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Hi! Welcome! I feel you because people think treat me the same way. They are always asking about when we will get married, but when I talk about things no one wants to listen. I am so glad that I found this website because I am around people that are in  a similar situation.

Post # 8
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830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Special K – welome to the club. I, too, have planned out EVERY detail in my head. But that’s only the direct result of being subjected to about 10 weddings in the last 3 years, so I know what I want. How frustrating that you already have a ring but he hasn’t formally asked you! If he went as far as to get you a ring, than at least you know he intends to marry you at some point. But guys need their own time. Hang in there!

Post # 9
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5280 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

welcome to the hive!! i’d definitely come here to vent, it will make you feel so much better to know that there are people in the exact same situation as you are now.  i have gone through a huge era of venting (if you read through my earlier posts) to a sort of complacency in the 4+ months that I have been here.  And honestly I don’t know if I’d be so relaxed if I wasn’t on this board.  It is truly my sanity in days that are insanely crazy with anxiety, joy, worry, and happiness…

Post # 10
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150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Nope your not crazy. Your a Waiting Bee! Welcome; you’ll find many many sympathetic ears (fingers) Hear. Theres a whole section for your to join!! (Waiting)

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