(Closed) MY FUTURE SISTER IN LAW KEEPS INTERFERING!!! sorry if its long!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@lovestoned_x:  She sounds like she is overzealous. Just say “thank you” and learn the art of “mmm hmm” when talking to someone.

You and your Fiance need to sit down soon and discuss what type of wedding you want. There would be nothing wrong was a traditional British wedding with one or two cultural aspects in the decor or ceremony from his parents.

As you get deeper into planning, I would sit her down and tell her you love her BUT you and your Fiance have your own ideas and you appreciate her help in implimenting those, not her own.

Post # 4
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

What you need to do is sit down with your Fiance and ask him what he envisions for the wedding.  Once you two come to an agreement, kindly tell your Future Sister-In-Law that you have already got everything figured out, but that you appreciate her help.  You can include her in making decisions like centerpieces and invitations and such, but where it concerns the placement of culture and religion (and where you spend the night), that is none of her business.  I am sure that if your FI’s parents didn’t want you staying over, they would tell you so.  You’re going to have to be polite but firm if you want this wedding to remain YOUR wedding, and not turn into your FI’s family circus.

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