(Closed) My girlfriend's FWB when we startred dating

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 272
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436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

@JustCluedIn:  she would remember if she was having sex with you and him. i’m sorry, but you don’t just ‘forget’ that sort of thing…

Post # 273
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670 posts
Busy bee

@JustCluedIn:  I haven’t read many of the responses here, but I can see why it bothers you, it was disingenious of her to say she “wants to take it slow” (which does imply that she’s invested in heading there with you at some point in time), all the while gettin it from her F-buddy. 

 

If you were to continue a relationship with this girl, I’d expect more of the same.  I don’t mean sleeping with others, but just her saying what she thinks she wants you to hear, and not being genuine.

 

Good luck!  I would say “next” if I were you!

 

Post # 274
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1660 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@JustCluedIn:  Ok, so I just found this thread and I’ve read through about 65% of it (mostly your updates) and I was originally in the “you two weren’t exclusive, no harm no foul” camp, going to say just talk to her, get the whole story… I hate games, don’t beat around the bush.  If she’s known this guy a while then she did nothing wrong… Then your update in the middle about sleeping around, not real mature, and I think you would be better to break it off (or TALK IT OUT), but you aren’t exclusive so do what you want…

BUT, after the latest update, she met this guy and started sleeping with him right away?  Well, that’s a little shady when she’s giving you the “I’m not the kind of girl” stuff… I mean, to each her own, but I find it shady.  Then the BS about not being able to “remember” if she was sleeping with both of you at the same time?  That’s a lie.  You don’t forget that kind of stuff.  And as a PP was saying she definitely tried to butter you up because you started to call her out last time, she knew she was in trouble and wanted to get out of it.

Now, all that said… Stop playing games, call her out on her bullshit and ask for answers.  If she can’t give you real answers then leave.  She’s being shady, you sticking around for “revenge” is shady and this relationship is really unhealthy… Best of luck!

Post # 275
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131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

She sounds easy. She was sleeping with the both of you. She basically admitted if a guy is persistant enough she will give in. She also is 30 so if this is any indication of her past her number is probably pretty high. Sorry I think she is a slut. You should move on.

Post # 276
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2649 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

So I have been following this. This whole thing is one big CREEPY ride to Wtf-ville.

 

 

@JustCluedIn:   My advice?  Sorry to be bunt but Drop her. Make it quick clean and permanant. Then get some therapy.

Post # 277
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1178 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

thats not very classy to be screwing one guy and getting the royal treatment from the other. and coming over and stripping for you? what kind of class is that… if she KNEW you guys had something to talk about. I think ya need to drop her.

Post # 278
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644 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wow, I left for a few days figuring this thread had run its course. NOPE. Okay, I was not a big fan of you in the beginning, but… your recent update? Just leave. She knows what she did wrong. And, as many PPs have said, she totally knows when she stopped sleeping with him, so yes, it sounds like there was overlap. Just leave.

 

In the future though, try not to focus on what you had to do to get her to have sex with you. Especially on a forum of mostly women. It really comes off in a bad way. You seem soooo preoccupied with this aspect. Just let it go.

Post # 279
Member
163 posts
Blushing bee

@JustCluedIn:  

No matter how many dates you go on with her (or any other woman), YOU ARE NOT OWED AND ARE NOT ENTITLED TO FUCK THEM…..ANY OF THEM !!!!

That’s all I have to say.

Post # 280
Member
747 posts
Busy bee

Not gonna lie, Id be pissed if my bf had been sleeping with someone else when we started dating 

 

Post # 281
Member
438 posts
Helper bee

I wouldn’t dream of having sex with one person whilst steadily dating another for 2 months. You’re right to be pissed. 

Post # 282
Member
738 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

peter.betts.752:  you sound like an idiot, I hope she breaks it off with you.

Post # 282
Bee
11811 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Going to go ahead and close this since it was from a year ago and bumped by a troll.

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