(Closed) My guardian has passed away.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss. I too lost my dad 1 year and a half ago to cancer. The few months before he passed he was in so much pain and his health plummeted so quickly. I was really close to my dad. There were so many things I had yet to do with my dad, I really wasn’t ready to let him go yet. I finally graduated from graduated school (which he was anxiously waiting for), he didn’t see me get married, or have kids. But when he passed my initial reaction really was he’s at a better place. No more suffereing for him. The aftermath is really hard to deal with tho.

Everyone is different but I’m having my mom walk me down the aisle when I marry next year. My bouquet will have a pendant with a picture of my father on it. My mom threw away alot of my dad’s cloths but she has a few jackets left. I’m cutting up a piece of it (into a heart shape) and sewing it onto my dress. I haven’t decided inside or outside of the dress. But all things that can make me feel like my dad is sharing the moment with me.

I wish you well and let all the good moments you shared with your guardian push you through all the bad times 

Post # 18
1731 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What a wonderful man. I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your guardian-mother will be in my thoughts. I know that he’ll be in your thoughts on your day, too.

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