- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
Hi Bees –
I’m a quasi regular her and this is touchy so I am going under a new name.
I’ve been engaged to a great guy for about four months (we dated for two years). He’s handsome, intelligent, caring, and genuine.
On the topic of “past lives” I know he’s had more experience than me but I’m secure enough to understand that we all have pasts. Anyway, last night something happened that freaked me out. We shared a bottle of wine and were “heading to the bedroom” when ‘Kevin’ decided to tell me something. Before he met me, he was friends with a married couple. Well the husband wanted him to have sex with his wife and he did!! The husband never joined in but would either watch or leave the room.
On top of that bomb shell, this couple are our friends!! We’ve been to their home and they have been to ours. I’m really freaked out by all this. I’m angry that he didn’t tell me way way earlier and also that he did it in the first place.
I’m not sure how to move forward. I’d really really appreciate your suggestions.