(Closed) My heart has passed away…

posted 4 years ago in Beehive
Post # 151
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1811 posts
Buzzing bee

Sorry doesn’t cover it, bee. But nonetheless, I wish I had the power to change all of this for you and my heart aches for what you wrote and are going through. I lost my mom 6 weeks after my wedding (suddenly) and there are all these different feelings you go through. One day, the what ifs and why me’s will fade and you will feel different–not “better” about what happened, exactly, but you’ll have a different perspective and the pain will not be as sharp. I’m so grateful you met one another and had the opportunity to love so much. I am sending you strength and prayers and so very many wishes of peace of mind/heart. We are all thinking of you!

Post # 152
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545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - sandcastle

I’m so sorry for your loss, My thoughts and prayers are with you. 🙁

Post # 153
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575 posts
Busy bee

Im so sorry to read about your husband’s sudden passing. I hope you have family and friends close by and available to help get you through this difficult time. Please take care of yourself. 

Post # 154
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3327 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Strbuckslvr:  bee am so sorry for your loss, that a sad and tragic time. There is no words that can make this better. Your not to blame, the human body is. We are all here for you. If you need to cry or scream I do recommend you do it. Keeping it in will only make your grieving long. I read your post and a tear rolled down my check. I know it’s coming in my relationship due to an age difference and that still chokes me up thinking about it. I can’t imagine the pain your feeling at your young age and the suddenness of it all. You will never get over it but day by day you get better at coping with it. I wish I was by your side right now to give you a massive hug. Xxxxxxxx

Post # 155
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1450 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - St. John\'s Lutheran Church

This is just terrible. Bee, I’m so incredibly sad for you. I hope you have a support system of loved ones in place for you at this time. While I highly recommend avoiding Weddingbee for a while, if you ever need someone to talk to, scream at, or just listen, I check my inbox often. 

Post # 156
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108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

My heart is breaking for you Bee! I am so so sorry for you loss. All the love in the world to you! 

Post # 157
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2251 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Omg, how awful!  I’m so very sorry for your loss!  I can’t even comprehend what you’re going through.  I’m sick to my stomach for you,  your grief is immeasurable,  and I feel it through the e-space.  I’m so sorry.  I’m going to be praying for you and your family. My deepest sympathy. 

Post # 158
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1606 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

My heart is hurting for you, bee <3. I am so so sorry for your loss 🙁 I can’t even imagine how that must feel. You will be in my prayers tonight

Post # 159
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729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I am so sorry to hear this…I can’t imagine having to face this so young, I am 27 and I met the love of my life just last year and I have to admit that I worry about this all the time. Wishing you comfort and peace at this difficult time. <3

Post # 161
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102 posts
Blushing bee

sending you so much love and many prayers, Bee. 

Post # 162
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329 posts
Helper bee

My prayers are with you <3 I am so sorry for your loss.

Boże, który zawsze się litujesz i przebaczasz, pokornie Cię błagamy, nie oddawaj w moc nieprzyjaciela i nie zapominaj na wieki duszy Twojego sługi N. (Twojej służebnicy N.), której dzisiaj kazałeś odejść z tego świata, lecz rozkaż Świętym Aniołom wprowadzić ją do niebieskiej ojczyzny, a ponieważ Tobie wierzyła i ufała, niech nie ponosi kar piekielnych, lecz posiądzie szczęście wieczne.

Zmiłuj się, Panie, nad duszą Twojego sługi N. (Twojej służebnicy N.), za którą się modlimy, pokornie błagając Twego miłosierdzia, aby oczyszczona osiągnęła odpoczynek wieczny.

Przyjmij, Panie, nasze modlitwy za duszę Twojego sługi N. (Twojej służebnicy N.); jeżeli pozostała w niej jeszcze zmaza popełnionych na ziemi grzechów, niech ją łaskawie zgładzi Twoje miłosierdzie.

Przez Chrystusa, Pana naszego. Amen.

Post # 163
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35 posts
Newbee

Strbuckslvr:  Writing helps. You are asking for advice of what to DO. Do cry. Do write. Write a lot. Cry a lot. Be around those who are about you. Don’t be alone. Take FMLA leave if you are working. Take the 3 months alloted if your job allows it. Mourn. Grieve. Pray if you’re religious. Cry more. Make tea. Get up and make tea. I would move, eventually so it’s not as hard to live where you lived together. This will be hard, no one said it was easy. But as one bee said, you can make it a second. Check yourself, you’re still alive. Then you can make it 5 seconds. Remind yourself you’re still alive. Time WILL make it better. Although it never seems that way. 

Prayers your way. 

Post # 164
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1058 posts
Bumble bee

((((((((((( HUGS BEE! ))))))))))) 

Post # 165
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257 posts
Helper bee

 

Strbuckslvr:  Hi bee, just wanted to express my condolences and share a website with you that has really helped me. It’s called secondfirsts.com, she sends out an email every Friday that just happens to make sense to me during a time I needed to hear those words.

I also wanted to tell you to be open to the signs that you might receive from him. I have experienced a few things that I know were my parents checking on me. It happens every once in awhile and it will make me smile so I don’t want you to miss it.

Experiencing death at such a young age is the hardest and most unfair thing you will ever go thru and my heart hurts for you. Please take care of yourself and know that we are all here thinking about you. 

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