(Closed) My Heart Hurts…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I know its hard but just keep thinking he’s doing all this for both your future.  Is there anything you can do while he’s not home, meet up with friends, take a class/course or any other activity?

Post # 5
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179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@missjewels: The sacrifices you are making now will lead to sweet rewards down the road.  Just take advantage and cherish every free moment you both have together.  I believe this will also strength your relationship.  *hugs*

Post # 6
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34 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’ve been in your position, where Fiance and I worked such opposite schedules that we saw each other maybe two nights a week for 18 months, even though we live together. It’s hard. Sometimes so hard that it pushes you to breaking point. Just know that it won’t be forever, and be sure to make the most of what little time you do spend together.

I also found a small consolation in finding ways to connect with him even when we weren’t face to face. Things like leaving little notes for him to find when he got home and I was asleep, doing funny drawings for him, etc. Although your aren’t physically together, doing something for him can make you feel a little better and it creates a little sense of togetherness. 

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