(Closed) My hero breaks my heart

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so terribly sorry this happened to you! it all sounds very confusing and horribly hurtful

You and your baby are in my prayers. You are right, God’s Will in your life is more than you can comprehend and he wants the best for you. 

Post # 4
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487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh gosh, how horrible. You waited all that time and gave him all your prayers only for him to go and do this? How can he say you never asked him what he wanted when he was the one who proposed?

Still, there is something good to come out of this. You are not tied to this guy anymore and you will have a beautiful baby to focus your energy on. It might be hard at times but the gift of a child is a very precious one x

Post # 5
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

First of all, I am so sorry. Sometimes, deployment can do very odd things to wonderful men, but it sounds like your ex-fiance is not taking any responsibility for his actions, and it’s awful that you are the one to suffer for it.

Please, please, please talk to a JAG attorney – you are the caregiver of his child, he has a legal obligation to support the child financially (and get the baby covered under Tricare health insurance), and the military takes that very seriously. I don’t know exactly what they’ll say since you guys aren’t married, but they should be able to recommend a course of action for you.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

For the sake of yourself and this child, please do not take this man back. Any man who will get you pregnant and then break up with you over text is not a man. He is a little boy. I will pray for you and your child.

(If he can fight a war, he can fight for you.)

Post # 8
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Im so sorry for your situation 🙁 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh honey! I am so sorry!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

so… Fiance wants to know if you want him to beat this guy up.

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