Post # 1
I planned to spend the rest of my life with a soldier who just came back from Afghanistan . He proposed to me and i thought i had found the one. Well before he got deployed he was acting real reluctant to talk about the wedding. He wld up and disappear and i would forgive him because i loved him so much. Then i wait for him a whole year while he fights a war…..i prayed for him every night that he was just safe and for God to protect him. Surely enough he gets back…..doesnt invite me to the ribbon cutting ceremony and comes and sees me 2 weeks later:( What hurts the most he comes and sleeps with me i get pregnant and he never comes back again. He sends me a txt message saying its just not the right time to get married and that i never asked him what he wanted. I think what hurts the most is that he couldnt be a man and tell me face to face. It hurts like hell and being preggo makes it worse but i truly believe God has bigger and better for me. To all women going through this be strong….if u wanna cry then cry if u wanna scream then scream! Just remember u are worth much more
Post # 3
I’m so terribly sorry this happened to you! it all sounds very confusing and horribly hurtful
You and your baby are in my prayers. You are right, God’s Will in your life is more than you can comprehend and he wants the best for you.
Post # 4
Oh gosh, how horrible. You waited all that time and gave him all your prayers only for him to go and do this? How can he say you never asked him what he wanted when he was the one who proposed?
Still, there is something good to come out of this. You are not tied to this guy anymore and you will have a beautiful baby to focus your energy on. It might be hard at times but the gift of a child is a very precious one x
Post # 5
First of all, I am so sorry. Sometimes, deployment can do very odd things to wonderful men, but it sounds like your ex-fiance is not taking any responsibility for his actions, and it’s awful that you are the one to suffer for it.
Please, please, please talk to a JAG attorney – you are the caregiver of his child, he has a legal obligation to support the child financially (and get the baby covered under Tricare health insurance), and the military takes that very seriously. I don’t know exactly what they’ll say since you guys aren’t married, but they should be able to recommend a course of action for you.
Post # 6
For the sake of yourself and this child, please do not take this man back. Any man who will get you pregnant and then break up with you over text is not a man. He is a little boy. I will pray for you and your child.
(If he can fight a war, he can fight for you.)
Post # 8
Im so sorry for your situation 🙁
Post # 10
so… Fiance wants to know if you want him to beat this guy up.