(Closed) my hijacked wedding..vent

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1253 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Did you let your inlaws know before hand what food you wanted, like did you actually sit down and make a list with them or anything? That would really upset me too, if I didn’t get the food that I wanted at my own wedding πŸ™ As for your bachelorette party, I don’t understand why they would have made in on a night where you have to work the next day. I would have been FURIOUS to the point of not even showing up!  You should definitely be hounding your Maid/Matron of Honor for the cost of her dress, send her an email or phone call whatever, maybe she just needs a reminder. I don’t think you can control what color your guests wear to your wedding tho, how do you know everyone is going to wear black?

Post # 4
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3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I’m sorry you’re having a hard time πŸ™ I know that when a few things go wrong, everything seems to fall apart. When that happens my Fiance tells me to look at what good is happening around me. I hate it when he tells me that. But eventually I begin to see that it’s not all bad. I hope something good happens to you soon! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yeh, I was actually very chill right up until 2 weeks before the wedding. It felt like the little details weren’t coming together right and that is the vibe I’m getting from your message. It is alright to cry and scream and yell to get it all out, but then when you deal with people, you calmly say no, that is not right. Also, if your wedding is small, you still have time to fix the potatoes… Make them. I think it is a small concession on their part, and it will probably make you feel loads happier. I hope your wedding turns out perfectly for you!

Post # 8
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Girl, I understand.

I just learned of a couple of friends who at the last minute won’t be attending my bach-happy-hour. Another couldn’t tell me to my face that she would have to leave early because it is her and her boyfriend’s anniversary.

A couple of weeks ago, FH tried to take our music selection in a completely different direction despite me creating a playlist. I lots my cookies on that one.

Hang in there! Don’t get too caught up in little things, just enjoy your FH and the fun you’re going to have that day!

Post # 9
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1231 posts
Bumble bee

Just get a pillow and scream really really loud into it! I think once your married, you’ll be so happy to be with your HUSBAND that some of these things won’t seem so big! πŸ™‚

I know these things are stressing you out (it would bother me too) but I hope you enjoy your wedding πŸ™‚

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