My hubby is avoid-ant and hard to communicate with, what should I do?

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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6657 posts
Bee Keeper

SachKitten :  Good for you, Bee. And please stop doing his laundry, buying his beer, etc. If he won’t help take care of everyone at the very least he can learn what it is to take care of himself. Hugs.

Post # 32
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1115 posts
Bumble bee

SachKitten :  Thank you! I hope things work out better for you. Just remember that you have power here. I think it’s always worse when things feel hopeless. Sometimes the crappiest roads lead to the most beautiful and awesome destinations. 

Post # 33
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8830 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

SachKitten :  “he said, well we need to share half of the bills too” — This is terrible. This is not a partnership and it’s not loving. At all. He gets to treat you like a servant because he makes more money? I can’t imagine living like this. Do you honestly think anything will change if you get a higher-paying job? It won’t, but even if it does, that doesn’t mean he respects YOU more, it just means he respects your money more. Gross.

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