(Closed) my husband and my parents don't mix

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Frown

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

With no more details all I can say is I’m sorry you are in such a situation, and I hope that they grow on each other with time!

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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@rozzy: weve been together 9 yrs.my DH is a very shy and quiet man.he gets along with my family just fine.we secretly eloped last month and my family was furious.yesterday(Easter) was his first time coming around as my husband and it was very ackward for him.He was even more quiet and i can tell it made my family uncomfortable.he turned down liquor and dessert.i didnt see anything wrong with that.however i did with his quietness and being very short with everyone.he has always been this way but just a little more social.i dont know if its guilt for him or not.opinions please?

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

no idea. ask him, maybe?

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

I don’t really think that any of our hypotheses really matter in this situation. The only way to really know what is going on is to talk to your husband and find out how he was feeling/what was going through his head yesterday.

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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

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@lovekiss:  let me reinterate.what i mean is is this situation normal or was it just plain rude?

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

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@rozzy:  I think your question of “normal or rude” is irrelevant. It was an awkward day. Whether he was behaving in a “normal” or “rude” manner, as per the judgment of the Bee, does not matter. What matters is that you found it to be uncomfortable, therefore you have an issue with it, and the only way to get to the bottom of things is to talk to him. Maybe he had a b!tching headache that made him feel less social because he wasn’t feeling well. Maybe someone in your family was giving him the stink eye and you didn’t notice it. Maybe he was feeling guilty because you guys caught flack for eloping. None of us can tell you that.

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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

it just feels ackward because my mom family is making a huge deal out of it .and i told her look mom u already know hes not that sociable so why are you making a big deal out of it

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