my husband is getting too comfortable in our relationship is this normal?

posted 1 month ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

I think you need to talk to him and see if he’s having issues. If he’s leaving the room he may have a medical problem. Maybe he tries to play it off as being funny because he’s actually really embarassed? If that’s the case he needs to see a doctor! Does he fart all the time when you’re in public or with groups of people? 

Post # 17
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876 posts
Busy bee

diamondgirl523 : 

“Babe, can you do that before or after we do it?”

“excuse youuu” 

 

I would say these things so they get the hint to pick up their manners again, if they dont get the hint, i’d tell them straight up. It’s rude and can actually be disrespectful. 

Post # 18
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1131 posts
Bumble bee

We’re definitely a free farting burping household. And I do it as much as fiancé. We have a laugh about it. Not during sex though that’s a bit much.

Does he has IBS or something? Is this usually after specific things he’s eaten or drunk? Sometimes it can’t be controlled. Holding it in doesn’t work as it just comes back 10 seconds later. Sorry I can’t imagine having to hold in fart within the privacy of my own home. That’s like the only place I can let one rip without worrying about people hearing it. Though perhaps he can control the volume?

Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

Isn’t this the same guy that was physically abusing you? If that’s the case, you have much bigger problems than his gas!!!

Post # 20
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Bumble bee

Just read her old post, ok yea gas is the last of your concerns OP. mrsaime :  

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

Any update OP??? 

Post # 22
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

I agree with pp, this could be a medical issue. Gas daily is normal,  I read somewhere that 20 farts a day is an average number. I never do this in front of my fiance on purpose, that is what the bathroom is for.  I also do not use the bathroom while my man is in there. A little mystery is good imo. 

During sex? I would find that obnoxious and it would be a huge turn off. Not funny!

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