- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I’m so annoyed and I need to talk lol my husband is so damn unreliable. everytime I ask him to do something ( maybe not every time but 50% of the time) he never does it. He either forgets or just chooses not to. We have a rental property that needed a little bit of handyman work done, that my dad offered to do for us. I texted my husband and asked him to call the realestate and arrange a time for us that morning to get me dad in to do the job. I told him if he didn’t want to do it to let me know and I would do it, he said he would do it. I said he should set an alarm to remind himself to do it. This afternoon I get a call asking when someone will be able to come around as it turns out my husband never called. His excuse is he didn’t think it was important then later said he forgot ( my dad can no longer do the job since its too late so now we have to pay someone to do it ). I wouldn’t get upset if this was the first time but we had a discussion THIS MORNING about him telling me if he doesn’t plan on doing something so I can just do it myself. He apologised and agreed it would be annoying having him not do what he says. Then he goes and does it again! I’m so annoyed. He’s otherwise an amazing husband, provider… He’s my best friend. But I feel so disrespected that he would lie to me like that. I kind of feel like stopping everything I do for him and not doing favours he asks for to show him how annoying it is. So bees. Help me. What should I do or say to him and if I stop doing things for him what should I stop?