(Closed) My Husband Is Upset……

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 49
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6593 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Talk to your doctor about spirolactin. It is not a BC it is just an androgen blocker and can help you with the hair growth!

Good Luck!

Post # 51
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138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I think your husband has every right to be upset, its like you discussing the proceedures and you both have choices. He gets cut or you get cut open. And you end up getting the tubes tied and then after recovering he says oh yea i already got my balls snipped. I think you would be upset about it as well.

Post # 52
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138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Wow i just read that you are 22 years old. I am 30 years old and at 22 i wasnt even thinking about children. I didnt want to have kids yet but now that i am older i really do want children. Everyone is different but seriously take some concideration in this. I know you and your husband has made the choice to get the sugery and i am pretty sure no one here is trying to attack you in your choices but we have all been there. Not so much with the surgery but with having thoughts of babies, and family. Travel, you guys are still young and if you want no kids then just travel and love life.

Post # 53
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402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Why would you adopt kids when/if you decide you want children? I mean, if the point of his having a vasectomy was because you — I believe INSANELY think 45 is too old for a man to have a child *(that’s when the men I know START their families btw cause their education is done and careers are where they want them to be) — then adopting a child means you’ll still have a child with him, only he’ll be even older!  If you wanted to leave the door open to the possibility, maybe surgery wasn’t a great option.  You know, this can be reversed.  This thread is one of the craziest I have ever read on Wedding Bee, I’m sorry to say, and it has me laughing loudly at work…  I mean, it’s going from a discussion about something as serious as a vasectomy and whether or not a man should have a child with you when he’s 45 or older once you’re ready, to plucking out some excessive hairs! I gotta go back to dresses and accessories because I’m outa my depth here, I’m afraid! 

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