My Husband Wants to Divorce

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
1253 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

soontobebe :  I am so sorry.  I am particularly struck by his saying that he is not attracted to you anymore.  Why say that?  What is the value in an insult like that to somebody who has stood by your side for so many years, even if you have truly fallen out of love?  He is either a terrible person, or doing everything he can to hurt you enough to make his decision permanent. 

Please remember that these are the words of one person being spoken during a volitale and unstable time, and NOT the truth.  Do not let them invoke insecurities. 

I will pray for you.  Stay strong.  Resilience is learned. 

Post # 17
1128 posts
Bumble bee

slomotion :  +1

make that two bees flipping your person the bird when you’re ready.

It will get so much better❤️- wait till you find somebody who genuinely appreciates you!  The good part of your story hasn’t happened yet.

Big hugs

Post # 18
194 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Sorry bee, that’s a tough pill to swallow hearing that he wants to end things. I would agree too to spend time with love ones. Time heals all wounds.

Post # 20
9729 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

You have so much worth to the world. My ex used to like to tell me that no one else would treat me as well as he did (while he was chronically cheating on me) and that if I left him someone else would just treat me worse and that I couldn’t do any better. 

He was a damn liar and so is your husband when he says no one else will want you. This is a tactic that shitty men use to control you and keep you fearful and easy to manipulate. Don’t fall for it.

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