(Closed) My husband wants to spend Christmas with his mum!!!

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

So sorry to hear about your Mum’s illness.  There is nothing selfish in what you are saying and I completely understand you wish to spend Christmas with her. 

I thought it was rude of your husband to say ‘that is to say that till when your mum will not die we have to spend Christmas in Spain’.  Perhaps talk to him and request he show more sensitivity during this difficult time. 

I am married to someone from a different country also.  Neither of us live in the same city as our parents, so we tend to take turns at Christmas time. 

Good luck hun.

Post # 4
565 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

There’s nothing wrong or selfish with you wanting to visit your mother for Christmas.  I say go to Spain, spend the time with your mother, and if your husband won’t go with you, then tell him that it’s very important to you, that you don’t have much time left with your mom, and if he still won’t go, then you’ll go without him.   

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