(Closed) My husband was invited to wedding…but not me!

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 92
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1585 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so mad at this girl I could scream!!!!

I would seriously never talk to her again and send her a lump of coal for a present… selfish (insert bad word here)

Post # 93
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57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

wow, just checked back and got the update about the ask for money… ridiculous.  Up until now I was an advocate for ignoring her, but at this point I feel like the girl needs to be reprimanded!  Maybe you and your Fiance should write a letter, in lieu of a gift, telling her why you’re not attending the wedding and why she’s not getting a gift from you!  Seriously, it would be for her own good.  Not that it would be your place to protect her from herself, but it would be merited if you felt the urge to reprimand her.  Just saying…. 

Post # 94
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1509 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

OMG.  What a bitch! 

I think she seriously dislikes you if she won’t invite you, but will invite some random Girlfriend.

Also, talk about low class.

Post # 95
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946 posts
Busy bee

I would decline and then send her a broom for a wedding gift.

Post # 96
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1637 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

LMAO @ MissBiner’s gift suggestion. I think a broom along with the RSVP that says decline then in bold marker write 2 so she gets the hint that he is declining for the both of you even though she rudely didn’t invite you. Then maybe she’ll get the hint at how rude she is!

Also the Monetary Gifts Preferred on the INVITATION…TACKY (I know many bees don’t like the word but in this situation it needed to be used!) TACKY TACKY TACKY.

Post # 97
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5976 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m with Miss Biner – send her something small as a gift. Did you get anything from your wedding that you didn’t want? Regift anyone??

I have to say that you and your husband are handling this in a very classy way, and it says a lot about both of your character. I kept reading your posts thinking, “Is this chick for real?” The nerve of some people! Good job in handling!!!

Post # 98
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4023 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is horrible!!!! She is being so wrong and rude, and I would decline “2” for sure!!!!

Post # 99
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2394 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Monetary gifts preferred?!

Seriously.  Wow.

Post # 100
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

wow- how rude! i cant believe she even responded about how much the gift should be… she is crazy.. you both seem like you are doing everything correct and are being totally understanding.. and bravo to your husband, he sounds like a keeper 😉

Post # 102
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2286 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Nope. Rudeness transcends gender, race, creed, etc. Incidentally, as a feminist myself, she’s even more infuriating than she was yesterday. I hope you really did make that retort.

Post # 103
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

RUDE!!!!!!!!!! I wouldn’t go if I were your hubby!

Post # 104
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee

Nope. Married couples = package deal

Post # 105
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3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That.is.bananas.  She must be a nightmare to be with if she treats people that way.  Yikes.  I wouldn’t go if I were your husband.  So rude.

Post # 106
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3124 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

i wouldn’t even decline – i’d let that RSVP hang, and give her a pretty sweet answer if she calls looking for the RSVP info.  And by sweet, I mean horribly bitchy.  Bitchy is the absolute nicest word I can type in this box about that … person.

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