MemberPoop? How does he leave poop in different places? I don’t get that part, and besides that’s totally grosssss.
Just that would send me packing and running. Best of luck your a better woman than all of us. Yuck.
MemberOmg this almost made me puke, and I am usually great with poop/vomit/blood/etc. Get away, this is disgusting. Poop on the walls? Seriously? I have had kindergarteners with mental disorders do that. How can he leave it there for you?! Ahhh.it is one thing to flush and have it not all go down, but poop in strange places? Aaahh
MemberI know most bees don’t advocate for ultimatums bc they usually end badly but it looks like an ultimatum may be your only option at this point. He refuses to see a Dr and is literally infecting you because of his habits. You have to draw your line in the sand and stand your ground. I’d do a trial separation with the condition that he attends all appointments (medical Dr, nutritionist & psychiatrist) and gets all necessary testing. If he refuses then I’d walk away, at least knowing that I tried my best and gave support.
MemberIt’s ironic that with all of this, there’s been little mention of the um, interactive porn habit. A lot of women would consider this to be a deal breaker all by itself, even consistent with emotional cheating. OP has made it clear that it’s not OK with her, and that it is going on at the expense of the relationship.
The fact that it seems to be the least of her problems is pretty sad.
MemberMemberBWAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I know this isn’t a comical post but omg, I just died laughing.
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MemberMemberWhat kind of life is that? Can you imagine wht the next five years is like? I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this, but at the same time I feel really upset and angry for you! You deserve a life! It sounds like you are living with very difficult conditions. My parent’s friend actually married a very overweight man who didn’t go out or do much, and ended up divorcing him and finding a great and active guy who wanted to LIVE. Best of luck.
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MemberHe’s literally growing funghi all over his body and you chime in with that crock of shit advice? Pray on your own marriage, some people are looking for real, practical advice.. Not passive bs like you’re spewing.
A mental illness is one thing but, a mental illness that someone is completely unwilling to seek help for is quite another.. Any reasonable person can see that but, something tells me you don’t fall into that category.
MemberAwful. Have you googled “Scatophilia” or even “Encopresis” It may apply to this situation.
His actions are a behavioral based… I know this may sound extreme – But does Schizophrenia run in his family?
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