MemberCongrats!! I’m happy you are engaged, but even happier that you two talked things through and you feel so much better about the relationship!
I think maybe you can slowly introduce suprises back into the relationship, little by little, like training wheels on a bike. 
How about the first week assignment, he goes to the ice cream store and ‘surpises’ you with the flavor….baby steps
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Member@KoiKove: Lol, I may have to use that idea. I like it. This weekend, shortly after he popped the question I allowed him to “pick out” lunch for me – aka I’m working but if you want to grab lunch for the two of us – go ahead. He was good in his choice – chicken wrap with mozzarella, pepper and sundired tomato with leafy greens with a small handful of chips and a deli pickle.
I should perhaps give him baby steps.
Member@dragonlover: Yum!! I think he needs *LOTS* more baby steps!!
MemberGorgeous ring! Congratulations again!
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