(Closed) My Jeweller showed our rings BEFORE the wedding

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t think it’s weird, but I’m sorry that you’re upset about it.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

No I don’t think its weird at all. Maybe he is really excited that you guys are getting married. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

I personally wouldn’t be upset about the jeweler showing them the rings, but I would be a little peeved if your friends chose the same bands as you and your Fiance. A lot of people show off pictures of engagement rings/wedding bands before they can wear them. Your jeweler probably thought that if the subject came up, you would show them. He probably didn’t think much of it since you are all friends.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

The jeweler is just showing off his collection to potential customers that happen to be friends. In what context did he show the rings? Do you all know each other? If the jeweler said specifically that the rings were for you and not just for “another customer,” all parties must be pretty close. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I don’t think this is a big deal at all and wouldn’t be upset. 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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FutureMrsRN:  I don’t think it’s a big deal. He probably showed them to show off what he has created. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

It’s not a big deal get over it. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

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FutureMrsRN: A jeweler showed them some jewelry. I’m assuming that he is proud of his work and showing them was to show off his craftsmanship, not to sway them towards copying you and you fh. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

I think that seems perfectly normal??? He maybe just wanted to show them examples of what he can do. I don’t think it is a big deal at all. 

 

Sorry it upset you. 

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

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FutureMrsRN:  I think you’re just having wedding stress. I think it’s probably perfectly normal for an artisan to show their craft as soon as it’s finished. Honestly, most of your guests aren’t going to look at your rings anyway. It’s not like someone showed a picture of you in your dress or some awesome surprise detail you have planned. 

Take a deep breath lady! 🙂 We all freak out about little things as the day approaches, but I think your energy is probably better spent somehwere else in this case. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

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FutureMrsRN:  i assume u designed them with him???  He is within every right to show them to other customers. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

Then order new ones, so they’ll be a surprise to everyone?

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