(Closed) My last post….(warning: not a happy post)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry you two got in a fight.  I wish you happiness however you life turns out.

Post # 4
Member
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Wow….sounds like there is a serious control issue here.  I do not blame you for leaving though. That is bad that he never has vocalized these feelings to you. Communication is the key to any relationship and it sounds like he is not holding up to his part. I’m sorry you are going through this….better now then later though! Good luck to you! And you don’t have to leave WB!

Post # 5
Member
11271 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@endofmyrope:  i am sorry that you are going through this.  sounds like you made the right decision for yourself.  you deserve to be happy.

Post # 6
Member
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

awwww pumpkin im so sorry!! we wish you the best and we hope to see you back here soon!

Post # 7
Bee
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Schloss Heiligenberg/ Spearfish Canyon Lodge

*hugs*

Post # 8
Member
1346 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Im sorry you are going through it all.

But it is his decision to make and he should be able to make it his own and plan it in the way he wants. He may have had a big plan that he wanted to do!

Post # 9
Member
2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Well, he was rude.

I would not mind betting when he sees you are for real, he will change his tune.

Good for you- you are in control of your destiny!

Post # 10
Member
416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was in the same situation after 9 years. You do what u feel is right for you. You will not regret it! I hope u find the happiness u deserve.

Ps dont leave the bee. We r here for you!!

Post # 11
Member
2395 posts
Buzzing bee

@lisha_1988:  

 

But it is his decision to make and he should be able to make it his own and plan it in the way he wants. He may have had a big plan that he wanted to do!

 

After NINE YEARS???

Post # 12
Member
5009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Andr0meda:  My husband said something similar to me as the OP’s boyfriend said to her. Sometimes they do just want to do things in their own time! 

Post # 13
Member
1346 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@Andr0meda:  You cant put time frames on it some times.

Yes its been 9 years but maybe he wanted a mile stone of 10 years to do it??

Post # 14
Member
3305 posts
Sugar bee

Good for you. He should be more sensitive to your feelings. I am glad you are putting down your foot. I bet he comes running after you when he sees you have left.

Post # 15
Member
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@endofmyrope:  NO HE DID NOT. 

Well I’m proud of you for taking charge of your life, he obviously doesn’t have your lives together being a priority. Some women would just accept that and continue to wait, but you are SHERA! Woman in charge of her own future!

BEST OF LUCK! 

Post # 16
Member
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2005

If he’s controlling with starting your life together canyou imagine the bullet you’re dodging?

Im sorry it turned out like this and I wish you the best,

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