(Closed) My latest RSVP/wedding drama

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Wow.  You can’t make up something that crazy.  I would NOT be comfortable with him coming to my wedding, and I would very clearly let her know that while I would love to see her, her ex-con isn’t invited.  I mean, he will have served his time, and he deserves the benefit of the doubt, but the first time you meet your niece’s recently released boyfriend shouldn’t be at your wedding.  That’s not fair to you.

Post # 4
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2866 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Awkward! I’d just tell her you need to know before then and just tell her to RSVP for herself if she’d like to come.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Oh wow!  This is a bizarre situation.  I would mark them as a no.  It is highly unlikely his PO is going to let him leave the state that soon after getting out, especially since you are not a relative.

Post # 6
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401 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

your niece don’t waste any time huh? wow is all I can say I dont think she is making the best choices in life right now and what about her children, I hope they dont have to meet this man anytime soon.  I am not going to judge him just because he went to jail but she should be careful about bringing someone around her family when she does not know him well herself.

The main point is that you do not know this person so he need not be at your wedding!

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