(Closed) My Maid of Honor

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1356 posts
Bumble bee

I honestly think it is a little premature to stress about this now. A lot can change in two years. Heck, she could win the lotto! I wouldn’t do anything too drastic now, and just let it sit for a while. No need to cause a rift at this point. But I do see where you’re coming from…

Post # 4
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This is tough. I think you definitely are justified in feeling the way you do. I would also be disappointed and upset if my MOH/best friend did that to me. Unfortunately I don’t think you can be too mad if she says she can’t afford it. Times are tough in this economy and you said yourself her fiance has been out of work and they have a child. Also she did just find out she needs to pay back 3300 dollars that she probably doesn’t have. She may have gone on a cruise just a bit ago but that was different time and she may have been able to afford it then, just like she probably thought she could when she accepted your offer to be your Maid/Matron of Honor. Money situations can change really quickly. Would you and your Fiance ever be willing to front them the money if it means that much that they be there?

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