(Closed) My Man Maid of Honor bailed today, less then a month before my wedding. HELP!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
1137 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@jayyym823: i would bump your current bm to moh and i would have both the other 2 ladies as you bm, sounds like you can’t decide between them 

Post # 5
1089 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I would bump your other bridesmaid up. And choose one of the other  girls. Pretend that you had to have 3 in the beginning and who would you have chose? and then go with that one. 

I was asked to be in one of my friends bridal party’s 3 weeks before the wedding. Her bridesmaid was not being a good friend in the least bit. So she got fed up and booted her. I was kinda behind with everything going on but we had a blast in the end. 

Also you can always just have one if you honestly cannot choose. A friend of mine has 4 bridesmaids and her hubbie has 5 grooms men. 


Post # 8
155 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m so sorry this happened! It sounds like he was definitely not fulfilling his role, and really not being a very good friend. It sucks when that happens.

I would promote your current bridesmaid (sounds like she has been there for you). Other than that I agree that you could go any way (i.e. just having 1 Maid/Matron of Honor, choosing both potentials and having 3 in your bridal party, or picking one of the potentials). Based on what you said, it sounds like both potential girls would be excellent bridesmaids. If it were me and I had to choose, I would probably ask the sister-in-law, since she is family.

Good luck!

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