(Closed) My Marriage is over….

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 17
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Busy bee

I really admire your strength. Sometimes the hardest choices to make are also the best ones. You didn’t take the easy route of staying in a comfortable relationship but rather the hard route in doing what is best for yourself and your family. Not everyone would be strong enough to make that choice. 

I’m sorry you are going through this.

Post # 18
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152 posts
Blushing bee

Sorry to hear about that. I wish you all happiness I can as you move forward,

Post # 19
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191 posts
Blushing bee

So sorry this has happened. But remember, when door closes another opens. Hopefully it wil lead you to something better. Good luck to you and your family.

Post # 20
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’ve been through divorce myself – in which I was the one who left him. It is hard and it was hard on him and both our kids. But be strong and never doubt your decision. You will get through this and there will be brighter days ahead for you and your son. You deserve the best. 

Post # 21
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@stardustintheeyes:  HUGS! It sounds like you’re handling it crazy-mature-ly (if that is a thing).  Glad to hear you’re going to stick around.

Post # 22
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3765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@stardustintheeyes:  Oh hun, I’m so sorry your trust was violated.  That is a hard thing to ever move past.  You sound like you’re in a really good place with this though, so keep your chin up!  Show your son how to treat a woman, and if he doesn’t treat her right she won’t stick around.  He will be a better husband and father for having seen your strength and how much you value your self-worth.  

Post # 23
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3968 posts
Honey bee

@stardustintheeyes:  I am SO sorry to hear this!! (((((HUGS)))) Thank you for sharing with us.  We are here for you!!!!

Post # 24
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Bumble Beekeeper

I am so sorry that you have had to make such a difficult decision. You know yourself and your limits better than anyone and if you have reached them you must do what is best for you and you alone. I wish you happiness and peace with whatever steps you take towards this decision. We are here for you.

Post # 25
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7112 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry!!! It’s a sucky situation, but it sounds like you’re in a good place and making the right decision. It’s never easy, but it’ll get better! And I’ll be sending you hugs across the interwebs!

Post # 26
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539 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

So sorry you’re going through this 🙁 Like PP’s have said, you sound so self-assured and level headed and I hope you find happiness! ((Hugs))

Post # 27
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Sugar bee

So sorry to hear that! I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but I know you’ve been on these boards a long time and probably have a lot of people to lean on ( even if it is online)!!

Post # 28
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2737 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I’m so very sorry. You sound very brave. All my thoughts and good wishes!!

Post # 28
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I’m so very sorry. You sound very brave. All my thoughts and good wishes!!

Post # 30
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@stardustintheeyes:  *hugs* My first marriage ended in divorce for very similar reasons. He did the one thing that I considered unforgivable. I still loved him, but I couldn’t live with someone that I could no longer trust. Take all the time you need, and do what is right for you in your heart. Unfortunately, love isn’t always enough, and it’s a killer when our dreams get trampled on.

My pm box is open.

much love and prayers.

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